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thirteen Twelvemonth. Sometime Son May Have Foot/Shoe Fetish

I have been wondering for awhile if my teenage son mayhap has a foot and shoe fetish. I had noticed non to long ago that my shoes in the cupboard didn't wait as swell as I normally continue them organized. A couple of days ago I came home from work early and when I got to my room I saw my son laying beyond my bed with a pair of my high heelsup to his face and he was smelling the inside of the shoe as he was rubbing himself. Instead of getting all freaked out I slowly and quietly retreated and so he wouldn't know I had seen him and I wanted to retrieve nigh the best way to approach this. Now I'one thousand sure some of you are thinking I was as well at-home for such a strange sight. When I was in college I dated a guy who had a shoe and foot fetish and once I got over the initial surprise and shock of such a weird attraction I learned information technology is a pretty common and harmless fetish. My fellow loved to sniff my shoes and I learned that particular odors/scents from the opposite sexual activity are normal attractants of humans and most of us haven't realy explored this to know what scents may plow usa on. So, I judge my question is how do I approach my son and encourage him to talk about something he may believe is as well weird to talk about? Also, being I have no problems with him having this fetish, exercise I encourage him to sniff my shoes and what ever else he is doing? I have always had a very open relationship with my son being a single mom and being I accept his fetish, what can I say to let him know his attraction to girls and womens shoes and feet is normal for him merely warn him nearly sharing also much about his fetish so as to not scare any of his friends and whatsoever girls his age? Thank you in advance for any "words of wisdom" any of y'all may be able to provide.

I believe it really gets back to how do nosotros want to teach, and model, good for you sexuality to our kids. Nosotros alive in a culture where almost anything goes... but practice you want your son to go at that place? With a little more than research you will find that fetishes are non harmless, because they build up fantasies that tin can never be satisfied in the context of a normal sexual human relationship; the event is sexual, and with that, relational dysfunction. My married woman just told me about a fellow employee at work whose marriage ended as a result of the husband's shoe fettish. Fettishes are much similar a pornogrphy addiction... they preoccupy and corrupt the beautiful, natural sexual gift we have been given. Your son may be by himself in this now... simply as he grows up, if information technology is still with him, it will affect his power to accept a normal, salubrious sexual relationship... similar with a spouse. Paul in Seattle

Blow information technology out your arse Paul.

First of all, I like the way you handled the akward scene starring your son. I wish all parents handled such situations the aforementioned way. Secondly, granted I'm not a father, I am a man in his early 30s who has had a pes fetish all his life. My advice is, in a coincidental conversation with your son about sex or sexuality, probe (don't button) him a piffling to run into if he'll admit to his fetish. Assure him that human sexuality is a circuitous creature that comes with many kinks and fetishes. Lodge teaches young people to accept one blazon of sexuality, which is why kids who are into things outside the norm feel lone and aback. It is up to smashing parents like you to help him know: 1) he is not solitary, that in that location are plenty other foot fetishists in the globe, and two) if he takes it slow, he simply might find a girl who will welcome his fetish. But don't encourage him to sniff YOUR shoes. Not a expert idea.

Upon stumbling on this question and reading all the posts on this discipline and trying to put myself in the boy's shoes (pun intended), I believe the all-time thing you lot could practice is give him a volume titled "THE SEX LIFE OF THE Pes AND SHOE" by William A. Rossi. ISBN # 0-89464-573-0 (Hard COVER) or ISBN # 0-89464-756-3 (PAPERBACK). And promise for the best!

I have had a human foot/shoe fetish since I can think, I can recall stealing my babysitters shoes at the age of 4 and smelling them. At the time I didn't know why I was fascinated with her shoes, I merely knew I liked the looks and the smell. It was later on in life that I discovered that there was a proper noun for my behavior, foot/shoe fetish. I had always known that I was attracted to women south feet/shoes merely thought I was alone in this and that I was some type of freak, thank you to the internet, I realized that I wasn't lone and there were both men and women with this fetish and that it was a pretty common fetish.

I thing I accept learned in my 39 years is that every 1 with a pes/shoe fetish is dissimilar, nosotros all exhibit dissimilar behaviors. A foot/shoe fetish can be harmless and tin can actually exist good for a relationship as there are tons of romantic gestures that can be had by the other partner being supportive. Can you imagine foot rubs every night without asking for one? Or a partner that encourages you to buy shoes? There are definitely advantages in dating someone with a pes/shoe fetish. In having said that, there is the other side of the coin. In that location are many people (men and women) with a foot fetish that have difficulty controlling their urges and finish up in trouble because of it. For some, it needs to be controlled or information technology tin speedily grow to an overwhelming desire that leads to things such as the stealing of womens shoes or fifty-fifty worse. In that location are stories all over the internet about this. It is this behavior that gives us all a bad name.

I call back the fundamental is to exist supportive and to permit him know there is nothing wrong with his desires simply with every want there is right and wrong. I wouldn't tell him yous walked in on him, however I would have a talk with him and permit him know that you lot know well-nigh his fetish and that you are supportive. He shouldn't be smelling his mothers shoes, socks etc, that should be fixed or information technology could lead to other issues in the future. There and at that place are other ways to feed his overwhelming desires. I will exit that upward to yous.

There are celebrities in the earth that are very open nearly their foot/shoe fetish, hither are some for example:

Quentin Tarantino, Elvis Presley, Tommy Lee, Christian Slater, Jack Black, Britney Spears, Jay Leno, F. Scott Fitzgerald, Enrique Iglesias, Ricky Martin and tons more. I bet some of these names shocked you! Like I said, it is more common that you would think. Just be supportive!

I think your advice is the best! It is also bad the states foot fetishists are given a bad proper noun because of the few of usa who can't control their urges and begin to develop compulsions (which atomic number 82 to doing things similar stealing women'southward shoes). But luckily for this woman's teenage son, these days with the help of the Cyberspace, human foot fetishism is more than out than ever before, which literally multiplies this child's chances of finding more support and advice and ways to cope with his sexuality than always before. I am in my early 30s, and I remember when I was a teenager, I thought I was the simply "human foot freak" on the planet. Often I felt solitary and ashamed, and fifty-fifty tried to act similar I didn't have the fetish (which any truthful foot fetishist will tell yous only leads to sexual frustration). I gauge I like your advice to her so much because I can PERSONALLY relate to much of what you lot mentioned in your advice!

I hold with coolwaterboy that this is the best reply and then far. I too thought I was the only human foot freak until I establish other people very much like me on the internet. I was already married at the time. My wife never appreciated my fetish and I wanted to explore information technology more with other women (through photography and massage, not sexual practice). Now divorced, I have the freedom to explore my fascination without disapproval from someone I thought completed me. I hope your son learns that he isn't alone, that he doesn't need to canteen up his desires, and that it's better to 'find himself' before he commits to someone who may not understand or have him once he does. I wish you lot and your son well!

I remember this is the best answer so far, but being supportive...in a way I divorced over the very thing, I loved my woman looking elegant sort to speak, love heels and hose, stockings which feeds my fetish, my x was a sneaker, flip bomb, no hose or stocking type which led me to cheating, thank god not the stealing shoes, hose,etc type guys who want don't go feed, I even paid for well worn pantyhose over the internet, wasnt getting at abode so gotta practise what you gotta do!! Adept thing is the internet and its more than open up now days, tin can find a adult female that enjoys or welcomes his desire, such as me...my wife was nylons everyday! I have found knee high nylon socks in my pocket from wife with note, enjoy, love you lot....so its swell, he merely has to find the correct person that welcomes him for him and wants likewise be apart equally him of that person he is with...everybody have needs!

oh, try to find a style for him to stop sniffing mommy stuff..lol no advice on that one...

one/two "cupboard" Isn't fourth dimension we come out of the "shoe" closet, like the gay people did. I am deeply disturbed by the stigma attached to foot fetishism. There are plenty of people obsessed with breasts, and even vaginas, that are forceful. I could even become and then far as to say that a fair amount of men are just equally forceful equally anyone with a fetish, and people who like anxiety are less likely to do vanquish their wife. This isn't a proven fact. This is just an case, and to show non fetishists how it feels when the tables are turned. To group people with foot fetishes is like grouping all liberals or conservatives. It's human being nature I guess. Nosotros did the same with the gays before they said it was enough and spoke up. It'southward our turn now. In my person life, it wouldn't change a thing, because I'thou very social just like others with this. To be ashamed is lightheaded. It's crucial to give adult female vaginal pleasure - 2/2

You lot seem to take a very proficient handle on it already. I agree that making a big bargain out of information technology is the wrong road. I'd just come up dwelling one evening, slip my shoes off, hand them to him and with friendly grin, say, "you might desire to attempt these, I've worn them all day." Make sure the conversation after that remains cheerful and understanding, not criticism. The object is to go the result up on the table where both of you lot can talk about information technology openly. Then you can provide the guidance on how he should deal with it.

If he's heard the story about the guy you dated in school with the fetish, that may accept something to do with it. Kids that age experiment with a lot of things they hear virtually merely the behavior never becomes part of their life.

Why would you bring it upwards to him? At that place is no reason to embarrass him like that, some affair southward are left best unsaid.

Nobody is suggesting trying to embarrass the child. If handled well, parents can talk over a littany of sensitive issues with children without embarrassing them. Many of the serious issues kids get into are the result of "things being left unsaid." A parent can't offer guidance to their child without communication and the issue has to exist brought up on the tabular array some way. The easiest style to make a child experience that what he'south doing is bad or ugly is to tell him, "we don't talk about that."

To jgamelb32: Y'all don't grow out of a "Foot Kink." Yous kid yourself if y'all call up you can. Y'all but repress it, like gays going in church building to exist "cured". At that place's cipher to cure. I told my girlfriends. And then,due east we're against it at first, but if you're confident, it will go rid of the stigma and you'll be able to enjoy your lust, and will please her too via confidence/feel. Aforementioned every bit anyone with or without a kink. I tried to "abound out of it", because of the stigma. Then as I got older I realized there's nothing wrong with this. It's only a glitch in the encephalon. The signal that detects feet is right next to the detection, and arousal of ballocks. This gets switched. Everything else works the same like personality. People similar to label others that are unique. This is a grey area. Sometimes it'southward ok. If some is skitzofrenic, you lot label them every bit such, but still don't judge. Never assume.

Accept him shoe shopping.

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Ask_Sean Says, Confront him and speak near the situation calmly and yeh I know information technology'l be embarasing for him and you lot simply you'l need to go information technology sorted.

I think you're doing the correct thing and approaching the situation in an adult style. I'm a shoe fetishist and take been all my life. Unfortunately I didn't take the support and understanding that yous're proposing for your son. So I had to find myself; it took iii failed marriages and lots of heartache until I was able to empathize myself. At present I'1000 completely happy with my life. I live alone with my shoes. Fortunately I'g a shoe fetishist, and non a foot fetishist. Foot fetishists need people; I don't. I think foot fetishists need more back up than shoe fetishists, so go for it, Richmond Girl! I recollect you're bully.
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Hi, here is a link to "The Bible" on all sexual behavior. If you want to empathize your son at the deepest level, take time the read the section nigh shoes and feet in this book.

Without going into my own back footing, I can let you know that this fetish is about power, believe it or not? There is a reason for everything, and even your son may non know what is going on himself. He is NOT going to come to you and say, "Wow, mom, your shoes smell fantastic", you did the correct thing past not confronting him. There could exist an incident with your son where he was hurt or embarrassed by a woman waring high heels, and perchance lowered his optics and viewed her shoes. Something equally seemingly as harmless as an incident that was no big deal at the time could have been the trigger that set him on his path? I don't know if information technology is worth trying to detect out what happened, or peradventure information technology is?

I hate to say this, and please don't take it the wrong fashion, but information technology looks like your son is drastic? He has no other outlet for his desires except going in your cupboard. It would announced that he recognizes your power besides, and his beliefs is virtually trying to gain his ain power at this signal. It is for this reason, if you can find out what happened, you may exist able to assist him? I'g sure that my mom knew virtually me, in fact, she sent me to my cousins firm i fourth dimension for an overnight stay, and her shoe closet was simply besides much for me to decline, although I did not exercise anything. I remember her coming in when she thought I was asleep, and she went right to her shoe tree. I knew information technology was a test from my mom.

All and all, your son is at the very outset stages of this, and what the outcome will exist, even he will not exist able to tell y'all at his age of 13yo. He may get over information technology?

I can say that y'all are a adult female with tremendous love for your son, and there in lies the real ability. Information technology is your love that can help him become the all-time person he can be...:-)

Answered Dec 01, 2010

Edited December 01, 2010

Holly Molly!

What can I say.

Im 29 years old and have had my fetish since the age of almost 6ish...

I have to say you are a very agreement person, to not have rushed in a bellowed the child to tears. That definetly would non accept helped, and would have left the child really scared what was going to happen now that his female parent new his 'underground'!

Im non certain if encouraging the boy to endulge how ever is skillful. For me..... my desires are merely making me miserable and I also do things which (I get abroad with) only which would also be deemed socially unacceptable.

I likewise im disgusted to say, started with my mothers shoes. (shakes head) simply I forced my self to stop, as I knew that I should definetly non be mixing my sexuallity with my mother. And then I broke that behaviour!

However, I did and all the same practise indulge, but more with people whom a sexual attraction is socially acceptable. Simply the problem with me, is that my urges are somewhat compulsive now. Given the oppurtunity I will engineer a way to go my self beneath the desk-bound of the good looking girl in the next door role at piece of work, sniff and give those wonderfully sexy all the same worn and dirty heels and practiced lick (they get out heels under desk for meetings etc). This is not me justifying my actions or what e'er the discussion is Im looking for, im just giving yous an instance of the things your son will exist compulsed to exercise peculiarly if you encourage it.

The 2nd trouble, which is related is simply similar gate style drugs pb to difficult drugs, well then besides can foot/shoe fetishism lead to hard forms of sexuality, such every bit bdsm etc..... The two have a symbiotic relationship. At least they did for me.

The power and the fantasy is fulfilled through such things as trampling, mistresses etc etc etc..... all inside the domain of bdsm.

My advice would be practise non scare the boy, and make him think, he cannot confide in you about such matters. Withal, please do not encourage him either. This things, are past and big nonetheless not socially acceptable behaviours, plus why encourage him to get hooked on to something that will last a life fourth dimension, when he notwithstanding has the chance to escape information technology altogether.

On the other hand, dont despair. I paint a picture of doom and gloom. It doesnt have to be like that. This fetish has a huge specturm in adults. It tin can range from innocent foot massage, to more sensual toe sucking - pes kissing, and thingswhich I will not put downwards in words!

I think another affair you should be warry of and prepared for is the internet!

Up untill 1999, I only e'er had a few brief little things I got from Tv, magazines and my imagination. However, I went to University in 2000, and the commencement night I was solitary with my pc and the internet, I couldnt belive my eyes. To say that was the biggest upshot in my life then far would exist an understatement. I had everything I always dreamed off, and at 10000% the intensity.

Your going to have to get the balance right I think. Not overpowering nor as well liberal. Permit him his freedom, but try to besides keep in the loop. Please do not allow him get addicted to cyberspace porn, its a huge problem for me and Im stuck at present.

My fetish has had over 20 years to develop, what realistic risk do I have of denying information technology?

Im reaching a crossroads. Do I seek proffesional counceling to try to rid my self of these desires, or do I plunge head first in to the dark and murky globe of my fetish... ie fetish clubs, meeting like minded people etc etc etc...

I hope this mail, acted like a crystal ball, to a potential future for your son.

Past the way, Im not a complete loner, no hoper with no freinds. I take a practiced job, earn good money, am a good person with values, but on the other hand, I take a shoe fetish, and view bdsm porn. Im however learning the skills to value my self and inreturn learning to bargain with and exist comfortable effectually the reverse sex, without feeling like Im worthless etc....

Atcually, that makes me recollect, the accented all-time matter you tin can get your son to do, is exist socialable with the girls. Even if he's fetish developes, he volition learn forth the fashion the skills neccessary to be comfy around the opposite sexual practice.

It may be best to leave him alone? Could exist easier to boot difficult drugs than quit a foot and shoe fetish?

gemeyildiz - have the starting time option to move away from the destructive beahviours associated with your fettish. This all about self-respect. If y'all respected yourself you lot would non bailiwick your mind and body to things that y'all know are toxic. Your self worth is primal to your behaviours. You lot may always be tempted by shoes and anxiety, merely you can gain command over your actions. Pornography is especially unsafe for your well-being because it fuels the burn. Remove the oxygen and the heat of your desire will die out. Take your association with footwear and power and tranfer those images to yourself. You are a potent, powerful man. You are accomplished. Powerful and successful men wear corking shoes. Buy yourself some really expensive good shoes. Look at yourself in the mirror wearing the powerful shoes. Feel yourself wearing the powerful shoes. Those are your shoes and you deserve information technology.

I had ever had an obsession with girls clothes; underwear tops skirts shorts bathing suits lingerie shoes, whenever I come across a girls underwear I wanna effort it on and I used to watch porn non for the sex activity but because I loved seeing girls put clothes on or undress and I simply loved seeing them in skirts or underwear and today in my social psychology class I got to try on ii girls shoes and after class I saw one of them told her how much I liked wearing her shoe and even flirted a piffling immediately I got an erection and went to the nearest bathroom and masturbated until I came just thinking about her shoes, now I can't stop thinking nigh all girls clothes sexually and I actually wanna ask out this daughter not sure how to handle this? practice I ignore my thoughts and talk to her as normal?

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RichmondGirl - It sounds like you lot are on the right path. It is good that this swain has such a caring mother. I agree with your decision not to let your son know that you saw him with your shoes. I also agree with the other posters who suggested that y'all demand to arroyo this situation delicately. gemeyildiz provided some first-class insight into what is behind a shoe/foot fetish and provided a good definition of it equally a sexual dysfunction. You asked what is the best style to approach him about the topic. Equally is has been several months since your post I would assume that you take done so already. I can tell from you mail that you would have handled the discussion very sensitively and kindly. I would encourage you now if you haven't already done so to discourage him from going to your shoes or anxiety. However y'all handle the fetish in general, information technology is not okay for him to project those feelings onto you. I would suggest that you focus on teaching your son honor, respect, and self-worth. If these are difficult areas for you as well, I would suggest counselling may be of assistance. When your son sees you modelling these behaviours he volition do good too and you may come across a refuse in his dysfunctional behaviours.

Yous may call up he is on a path of desperation, but trust me, when he gets by the frustration of exploration, say through mid 20's, and sorts out his desires, he will have no shortage of female person fans. About all of the women I have confessed my desire of "pretty female feet" to love information technology. Outset, the honesty in confiding this "taboo" is endearing. Second, if it is incorporated into a healthy sexual relationship, a foot fetish tin heighten the feel for both partners. And third, what adult female doesn't like a foot massage/pampering? If she has pretty feet and knows it, she will have already desired a man to worship her.

A foot/shoe fetish is the least of your worries for a teenage son. Until he "ruins" a pair of your shoes, let him continue his path, unabated. He can't go an STD from a foot/shoe, or bring ane home pregnant!

I'm 32 years old. I had a shoe fetish since historic period four. My mother was merely as supportive as you are : ) I wouldn't face up him almost this. I would just sit him down and say "if there is annihilation you would like to talk well-nigh, DO NOT BE ASHAMED", IM YOUR Female parent AND I LOVE Y'all! In the concurrently, take him shoe shopping! simply look for shoes for you, yoll encounter the sexual tension, then afterward that mean solar day, sit him downward and ask him which shoes you go? hell reply honestly. This will be the best gateway for discussion. Have A SLUMBER PARTY! invite an fifty-fifty number of male/female person friends. If not a slumber party, accept a nice bi weekly cook out. get him active in some social activities : ) Hell plough out ok.

Answered May 29, 2011

Edited May 29, 2011

I propose you leave him lone its his life, if he wants to talk almost it then talk about it, only one time you lot get-go interfering with other peoples private fantasies y'all accept stepped over the line. Also its not your shoes you need worry almost its your knickers.. lol :)

Hi

As i who did what your son did all through my teenage years, I always felt guilty and aback and was in constant fear of getting caught. Thirteen is a very sensitive stage, though I had an aunt who loved foot rubs from age 8 and would always inquire me if her anxiety semelled as she lifted it to my olfactory organ.

What I wouold exercise, instead of handing him my shoe after a long day and request him if he like information technology, I would come home, take off my shoes and leave thgem virtually the door. I would besides go out pairs of my shoes around the house in conspicuous places where he would find them.

I would as well make piffling hints and comments similar, when you come home from work and take your shoes off: "Gee I promise the semell of my shoes doesn't carp you"

And when your girl friends are over and he is in earshod, I would talk loud enough and tell the story of your ex-boyfriend and how y'all thought it was cracking that he got aroused from sniffing your shoes.

Adjacent I would be barefoot around the firm a lot and get into the habbit of asking him to get your shoes and when he would hand them to you say: "Gee these seem to smell a little" then hand them to him and ask what he thought. If he seemed to like it, you could say: "I put pulverization in my shoes. How exercise they smell"?
Then if he seemed to like it you lot could tell him about your ex-b/f.

Later on a while going like this, one day you could remark that the inside of one of your shoes was wet and say to him: "My old b/f loved cumming my in my shoes. I liked it. In fact, I loved to watch" Tell him information technology is OK.

Then finally, one day, I would park your car effectually the corner and stay home then quietly surprize him while he was sniffing my shoes then tell him information technology was OK.

Then I wouold make it a point to invite daughter friend over and tell them they had to leave their shoes at the door so accept your friends to a unlike function of the house. When they were all settled in thye basement, I would come dorsum upstairs and ask your son if he checked out all of your friends shoes and which ones smelled the sexiest.

At a subsequently time I might advise to your friends that you are heading over to practiced will w/some of your onetime shoes and did they have any former i they wanted to donate and then give them to your son and tell him to accept fun sniffing and cumming in them

I am living westward/a husband whom has a foot fetish and it has destroyed our sexual life... Unfortunately I didn't catch on to the foot thing until a week before our hymeneals appointment when I confronted him and he reluctantly confirmed. I thought we could work through information technology but we haven't been able to. We've been married virtually a year and have been in wedlock counseling for nine mths... I arraign myself for not communicable onto this sooner and alive with the regret that nosotros have COMPLETELY DIFFERENT desires when it comes to sexuality. I could exist completely naked...nada from him... he touches my toes...and he'south totally interest and I'yard disgusted and completely turned off by this.
I cannot forecast the future for your son. I merely hope he doesn't cease up in a relationship similar to mine. Since you are seeing this at present and he's withal very young...hopefully you tin can work with him and guide him through this trying time. As an earlier response had pointed out, it'due south not always socially acceptable with anybody and although everyone deals with all dissimilar obstacles in their life, this one could pose to exist a bigger hurdle down the road.

Answered Jun 25, 2011

Edited Jun 25, 2011

Okay, the first affair that needs to exist done is....you lot need to break this addiction of him smelling his MOTHER'S shoes! Equating sexual feelings with something that his Female parent wears is outrageous. I've had a human foot fetish for as long as I can remember. Women with pretty feet just drive me insane. Fortunately I have quite a few women that indulge this fetish for me past giving me footjobs, allowing me to lick, smell and suck their feet, etc. I'm involved with a cute woman that allows me to satisfy my desire for her sexy anxiety whenever I desire. I likewise dearest to make love to her so her anxiety aren't the only thing I want. Having a foot fetish and liking female anxiety is just similar a human who likes breasts or legs or a woman's behind. The trouble is when one allows that fetish to go to a higher place and across a natural want. I recall you need to talk to him and tell him that while he may have a foot fetish and that it's okay, it is NOT okay for him to sniff and desire YOUR shoes and feet. That's almost incestual.

Fetishes are actually rooted in childhood experiences with our Mothers. Babies and toddlers crawl near their mother's feet a lot, and this sub-consciously triggers sexual response afterwards in life to other girls anxiety. This is why then many men are attracted to boobs, considering almost of u.s.a. suck them as babies and this memory of being nurtured/protected by Mother at her breasts triggers the attraction afterward in life. Your foot fetish is sub-consciously linked to your Mother. Still, I do agree with you on some level that what the son is doing is wrong, merely in a mode, it is very natural,

Purchase some used womens shoes at gerage sales. Tell him you got them for your self, merely they were slightly the wrong size. Here, mayhap a girl from school may desire to take these. I BET HELL KEEP THEM! THATS OK, least these are not his mother's shoes.

im a girl and I too have a human foot fetish!! non simply practise I enjoy playing with other women's feet, I enjoy playing with my own.
i accept daily pictures of my cute anxiety and take made a living selling well worn goods such equally shoes and socks.
anyone interested in talking my yahoo is
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i emailed u! if u dnt get it, my email is [email protected], I would love to share my fetish with any daughter with the same fetish!

I would love ii! ^

Is information technology an attraction to the high heels, pheromones or both? Perhaps he was looking very closely at the details of the shoe or sandal and y'all mistook information technology for "sniffing". Regardless of the attraction, information technology is a "normal" function of life (perhaps a very important part of life for some people).

Upon stumbling on this question and reading all the posts on this subject area and trying to put myself in the boy's shoes (pun intended), I believe the best thing you lot could practise is give him a book titled "THE Sexual practice LIFE OF THE FOOT AND SHOE" by William A. Rossi. ISBN # 0-89464-573-0 (HARD COVER) or ISBN # 0-89464-756-3 (PAPERBACK). And hope for the best!

Either only give the book to him mentioning either your ex-boyfriends fetish or saying that you have noticed your shoes in disarray a few times and recall he might be exploring different ideas, infatuations, passions or fondness for high heels. Mention that this volume tin and will shed some light on the subject area in an interesting style.

An alternative would be to get out the book lying around where he would exist sure to detect it (it will probably be difficult for you to find information technology for a while though, then be sure to get a copy for yourself).

This book will explain a lot to him (and you) near this somewhat delicate discipline. It volition also "suspension the ice", and allow communication between you lot and your son.

You might possibly ask him what styles of shoes and sandals he prefers (and why), opening upward lines of communication between you and your son and go from there. E'er remember that, a fetish can involve a limitless range of objects, activities or deportment. Therefore, continue an open mind and try not to await "shocked" by anything you lot encounter or hear. This is a very important subject for your son and the concluding matter you want to practice is embarrass or ridicule him, causing him shame or guilt.

Retrieve that a fetish is very seldom "cleaved" and therefore does not need to be "fixed". With that idea in heed, the choices you lot take is:

1. Ignore it. Information technology won't go away, and it will cause your son to take longer to notice
out what is going on with his own torso.

2. Endeavour to finish it. This volition make matters worse and bulldoze him deeper
underground, more cautious, secretive and making him experience that something
is wrong with him.

iii. Endeavor to educate him (and yourself) most such things, explaining that there
are many dissimilar means in which all the people of the world "meet" things,
opening up a vast assortment of intelligent chat. Ever keeping in mind
that you can't know what you don't know!

There are also a few websites that could act equally a support group to some extent such as sandalsx.com, hhp.org and heels4men.cyberspace.

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Adept luck

Sandalfetish1

Answered Jan 25, 2012

Edited Jan 27, 2012

I would similar to talk to some ane who has a foot/shoe fetish. I accept a pes/shoe fithis. And I have many ?s. Am a 16 year old male child who has this fetish. Whatever 1 out at that place that can help me

I am gonna say this might assistance. im a 14 year old boy with a foot fetish and if I were u I would talk to him. sometimes I wish I could tell my mom but im agape she would be disgusted. if anyone ever constitute out about my fetish I dont know what I would exercise. Accept information technology from a child information technology would be very very very embarrissing.
and so yous should talk to him earlier it gets the best of him and he trys somthin.
-chris

Im 16, I can help you :) is very easy

To thatoneperson: Don't keep this repressed. However, exercise wait until you finished with loftier school. They will non cease tease you. When yous go out of school into the developed world. You volition notice a big difference in how people react. Don't worry about telling your mom, or anyone. Offset tell your sexual partner, when y'all have confidence too. When you realize how much information technology doesn't affair. Such a piffling affair to loose any sleep over. As for me I tell women right away. Maybe because I don't make it an outcome they don't intendance either. Some practice at start, i.e., fifty-fifty if they don't accept information technology at outset. Don't cross them off the list merely yet. You don't desire to go through life repressing your foot kink, as it'southward not healthy. When you're prepare, tell your mom if you feel you lot should I'm not trying to obligate, but rather get you to have respect for yourself enough to tell others. It'due south really not an issue.

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Just be weary if he meets strangers that have the same. He needs to ensure he has safe fun.

Some guys and girls take it too far and get turned on by humiliation which can often lead to crushing etc and suffocation...

Okay, I am an 11 twelvemonth onetime boy, who just found out what a 'foot fetish' is on the Net. I'g glad to know that I'm not lone here! Just, just LOOKING at anxiety doesn't requite me any pleasure. I have to masturbate with my penis to feel the pleasure of seeing the feet. Does anyone know what this is called, and/or what I am doing is washed by others? I know that masturbation is also pretty common. Any help is GREATLY appreciated.

you have a foot fetish! congrats! delight read this article http://www.malefeetcalendar.com/footfetish.html Information technology was written for adults but it is besides for foot fetishists.

Hey, I'm looking for other people with a foot fetish to talk. This topic is very old but if anyone is reading this and is interested, please post a answer.

I similar the idea of while at the mall, just dropping into a ladies shoe store for a few minutes to run into some shoes for yourself, "if he doesn't mind". While checking out shoes for yourself, ask his stance on a few pair. If he responds favorably with perchance an opinion on design or color, compliment his observance. This could perchance open the door a crevice to more involved shoe talk later at home. And, who knows, he may have an eye for shoe pattern....

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Best Wishes and the good news is that for most a shoe fetish is simply plain fun. For a few it can atomic number 82 to a lone life style we all have choices.

A few years take gone by, anything alter?

I realize that time has past since you first asked your question, You could just slip off your pumps in front of him and get out the room, thus allowing him fourth dimension to explore and enjoy them. Any conversation with him on the field of study should be non-threating in a calm voice, in done private and promise him of your total privacy in the matter. Also don't force him and allow him to ask questions, as well don't fault observe with him.

Since he's a man now according to the constabulary, and will be going off on his own soon to higher information technology is important that you take him watch all these videos of a single man whom got prison fourth dimension, $50,000 in fines, negative publicity on national news, and had to register as a sex offender for doing things similar massaging and taking pictures of random women's anxiety at stores.
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From my point of view if some guy wants to requite my married woman a foot massage that means I don't accept to exercise it when I get dwelling tired from work, only If he sucks on her toes I will make him sign a waver stating that we are not responsible for whatever disease he catches from doing it ha-ha-ha. On the other hand some people and the courts are now ruling the touching and or photographing of a woman's feet and shoes every bit being sexual set on and will be treated equally if it were a serious sexual practice crime! If your son touches the wrong woman's feet he could face serious public humiliation and shunning, and will accept to go the balance of his life having to annals every bit a sex offender in whatever state he goes to alive in nether Meghan's law! He will never get to nourish your yard childrens school events, graduations etc... and In some neighborhoods he may even take to put upward a sign in his front end yard alarm people to keep abroad, while likewise loosing the privileged of getting to decorate his front end k for Christmas! He will also have trouble finding employment and fifty-fifty a spouse too! OUCH! Please tell him to think twice about this behavior, because it could save his life! If that woman'south feet are made out of pure Aureate he'd better make sure to cash them in while the price of gold is still high, and start a new life in some other land that doesn't take an extradition treaty with America!

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